Someone pointed out that my room looks pretty good, but that it is missing any Duke paraphernalia. Well, not quite... there was a Duke calendar hanging up and I have a Duke magnet on my locker, you just couldn't see either of them. Thanks to my amazing wife, I now have my Duke flag from my first tour back in Iraq with me. The only thing better than CARE packages are CARE packages from Gretchen with Duke stuff in them!

For the record, I hung the Duke flag after they lost to UNC. Poop on Tyler Hansbrough. Oh well, we'll just have to beat them for the NCAA championship.
Now, for the apocryphal title of today's blog... Some of you may have seen news reports that point out that violence is trending back upward in Baghdad. Some are trying to say that the violence is a response to the draw down of troops here as the surge comes to a close. Fair enough. I wonder where they get that though? There are less reporters in Iraq now than there have been since the war began. In fact, I've seen one the entire time I've been here. The truth is, most of the "news" you get in the States comes from stringers here. I have personally been present for events this time and the last time I was here that were covered by these stringers. I will lose no sleep in saying that all reports proved to be factually inaccurate. So, take a deep breath and get your grain of salt when you read these reports. There is often a kernel of truth in them, but they are nothing to hang your hat on.
With that said, my wife had the distinct displeasure of being online with me last night when two rockets flew over my building and detonated. We were typing to each other when it happened but we transitioned to the voice component of our chat program and she, unfortunately, had to hear the announcement of "Incoming, Incoming, seek cover" along with the alarms. Other than a quick trip to make sure my guys were all accounted for and ok, she was with me the entire time. Now, I relate this because I want everyone to know the amazing woman that I am married to. I, personally, cannot imagine what she must have gone through in hearing that. I do believe I may well have lost it. Yet, she handled it with the good grace and compassion of a saint. I am not afraid to admit that it was scary on my end. And, it's hardly the first time I've been rocketed or mortared, but it certainly was a little more real than usual. She stayed with me as I calmed down and would not let me go until she knew that all was well on my end. Then, she took our son out with his friend and had what would appear to most as a normal day.
One of the downsides of being a Reservist is that she is without the support net of concerned wives and girlfriends that exists in Active Duty units. She had no other wives to call. No one to tell her that "Bob has been rocketed a thousand times, don't worry about it..." Still, she went about her business. Keeping her promise to our son and his friend to take them to the mall. Finding time to go and buy things to put in the mail for me.
I am not surprised by any of this, but I am humbled by it. I am married to an incredible woman. Compassionate, intelligent, solid and ever capable.... (and smoking hot!). She is my best friend and I would be a shadow of the man I am without her. I may never understand how she does what she does, but I will never stop being thankful for it. I am not sure that I will ever be able to fully repay her... but that won't stop me from trying.
I had a request to describe an "average day" for me. I imagine that it will not surprise anyone to hear that there is really not such a thing as an average day here. But, I'll give it my best.
I get up around 5AM. I take care of personal hygiene, grab a pot of coffee and spend time with my wife and son online. Around 9 I head to my team room downstairs. It is a small office area with maps, a few tables, my secret laptop, a secure voiceline and a small TV. When not preparing for, or on, missions it is where my team and I spend most of our time. Typically, we are either preparing for a mission or recovering from a mission. We clean our weapons, do paperwork, conduct analysis of the parts of Baghdad that belong to my team and joke around. Around 11:30 we head to the chow hall for lunch. The food is good and the selection is good too. Believe it or not, there are Soldiers coming back from Iraq fat now. After lunch, we spend more time working and generally try to hit the gym. We go back to chow around 5:30 or 6 and then back to the team room for a teleconference with our company commander at 7. After that, I head back to my room to spend more time with my wife. I have internet in my room but it is achingly slow. It will take me about an hour to post this blog, for example. I'm typically in bed by midnight.
That's a day with no mission. On mission days, we tend to meet in the team room two hours before it's time to go. We make sure all of our weapons are working, get our maps and communications stuff together and head to our vehicle. Once there, we make sure our vehicle is in good working order, turn on and test all of the different electronics in our vehicles and then go to the mission brief. We leave the FOB and head for wherever we are going. The missions vary greatly and most of their contents do not belong in a public forum but it's safe to say that we are always out to engage the Iraqi people, understand their problems and find out what we can do to help the Iraqi government take care of their people. And, of course, we throw out a LOT of Beanie Babies and soccer balls. When we are done, we come back to the FOB, refuel, clean our weapons and discuss what went well and what did not.
Our days are always pretty busy. We wouldn't have it any other way... a bored team is a sad team.
I'll post again soon. Anyone who wants to know anything, just let me know.